Were You Really Abused?

You’ve been out for a while. You were the strong one, the sane one, the dedicated wife. Maybe you were not threatened with weapons, never hospitalized after an abusive incident, or called 911 for help.

Maybe you were ridiculed, undermined, told horrible things, or called ugly names.

Do you wonder if you were really abused?
Use this quick checklist for validation.

Do you wonder if you were just putting up with it?

Find out for sure with this quick checklist.

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Hi, I’m Mickie and I lived in abuse for 34 years

Now I’m here to carry the torch of transformation to you

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